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Life lessons from the Good Samaritan

This past weekend I entered out Junior High Bible class to teach them a lesson from Luke 10:25-37: The Parable of the Good Samaritan.  As I began the lesson I asked the class this question, “Have you ever taken the time to help a stranger in distress?” One by one several of the kids began to share their personal experience when one of the teens began to share his experience from the first day of school.  He was in the school cafeteria getting ready to go sit down with some friends when he noticed a student sitting at a table all alone.  Instead of sitting with his friends, he made the decision to go and eat lunch with the stranger.  He walked us and asked, “Can I sit here with you?” and was given permission.  They introduced themselves and began a conversation.  I inquired further as to his relationship today and he expressed that they were now good friends.

Standing before the class I silently thanked the Lord for this young man’s heart of gold.  He not only knew the difference that one person could make on another but was living it.  I have no idea if I was able to make much of an impact on that class that Sunday morning but I can tell you that Daniel Saathoff made a huge difference in my life that day.

After meditating on Luke 10:25-37, I have come to appreciate the practical application Jesus shares with us in regards to becoming more service-oriented.  In this passage we read about a lawyer who comes to Jesus. At first, he seems to have a genuine interest in finding out what it takes to gain eternal life. But as the conversation with Jesus continues, it becomes pretty obvious that this lawyer isn’t as interested in doing what it takes to gain eternal life as he is trying to find a way around his responsibilities.

I came across an article written by Pat Damiani which enlightened me on five requirements for serving other people.  I give him full credit for the article below and pray it is a blessing to you as it was to me.

Five Requirements for Serving Others:

Consciousness – The first step in serving the needs of others is that we need to develop an awareness of the needs of those around us. Interestingly, in this parable, all three men – the priest, the Levite, and the Samaritan – were aware of the man alongside of the road. In each case, the passage is quite clear that all three men saw the injured man alongside of the road.

The road from Jerusalem to Jericho was a narrow, windy road that descended about 3500 feet over 17 miles. If you look at the picture of this area on the screen, it’s easy to see why it was frequented by robbers who could find many places to hide. So you can imagine that as each of these three men traveled the road, they were very aware of their surroundings and there was no way they were going to miss a beaten, injured man alongside of the road.

It’s not always quite so easy for us to see the needs of people around us, though. If we really want to become the kind of people who minister to the needs of other people, we have to develop a consciousness or awareness of those around us who have needs.

Unfortunately, in this story, however, only one of the three men followed up once they became aware of the need. Both the priest and the Levite saw the man in great need, but they failed to do anything about it. I’ve often wondered why these religious leaders didn’t stop to help. Maybe they were on their way to the temple and they were afraid they would be defiled by the man’s blood. Maybe, they were afraid that if they stopped to help, they might suffer the same fate and be robbed and beaten themselves. Maybe they were late for the worship service and figured their duties there were more important than meeting the need right in front of them. Maybe they figured it was someone else’s duty to tend to the man.

But before we’re quick to condemn those men, we need to realize that we often fail to get involved in the lives of others for very similar reasons. So, while being conscious of the people around us and their needs is a great first step, it’s not enough by itself. We also have to have…

Compassion(Luke 10:33) “But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was: and when he saw him, he had compassion on him.”

Unlike the priest and the Levite, the Samaritan had compassion on the injured man. I’m sure that the Samaritan knew this was a Jewish man and he was certainly aware of the fact that the Jews and Samaritans despised each other. That animosity between the Jews and the Samaritans is also obvious in the account of the woman at the well in John 4. But this Samaritan man was willing to look beyond all that and to merely see another human being who had a great need and he had compassion.

Compassion is all about seeing someone else with a need and then being willing to do whatever we can to help the person with his or her need – not because the other person deserves it, but because God has put us in a position to help with those needs. He has put us into the life of another and he has provided us with resources that we can use to meet those needs. True compassion is not just an emotional feeling; it’s an act of the will. It’s a decision on my part to serve the needs of another regardless of how I feel about that person.

I think that’s where the lawyer who came to Jesus missed the boat. He was only willing to be a neighbor to those people that he liked, those that were more like him. But as we talked about last week, anybody can love the people we like. The measure of love is whether or not we love the unlovable.

But even if the Samaritan would have been conscious of the needs of this man and he had compassion, but didn’t do anything else, that still wouldn’t have been enough. He also had to have…

Contact(Luke 10:34) “He went to him…”  Here’s where the process breaks down for a lot of us. We see a need and we even have compassion for the other person. But, we’re not willing to take the next step. Because the next step is that I actually have to have contact with the other person. And sometimes that’s not real comfortable.

If the Samaritan was going to help this poor man, he had to get involved, he had to make contact. And that meant he was going to get dirty and bloody. It meant that he was exposing himself to the risk of getting robbed himself and to the risk of disease from this stranger. And it meant that he would have to associate with someone he despised and with someone who despised him.

I went back and read several of the accounts of Jesus healing various people. And I was amazed at how many of those accounts include what I would call the “Jesus touch”. Although he certainly had the power to heal without making contact with these people, it’s interesting that Jesus chose to reach and touch them as part of the healing process:
• A man with leprosy
• Peter’s mother-in-law who had a fever
• Two blind men
• A man who was deaf and dumb
• The coffin of a dead young man
• The servant of the high priest

That doesn’t even include all the people who were healed just because they reached out and touched Jesus or his garments. The list of people that Jesus touched reads like a “who’s who” of all the people anyone in their right mind would avoid making contact with – many of them were ill with contagious diseases, most were the outcasts of society, and one was the servant of a man who was going to call for the execution of Jesus in just a few hours. But Jesus was willing to take the risk of making contact with all these people so that he could meet their needs.

Would we be willing to make contact, to get involved in their lives in order to serve the needs of others? If you’re at all like me, here’s the weak link in the process of serving the needs of others. In those cases when I do see a need and when I have compassion on the other person, I often choose to just bypass this step. I figure someone else will help them out. Or sometimes, maybe I’ll ease my conscience a little by just giving the person some money, or even better, give someone else the money so that they can get involved in the person’s life on my behalf.

Maybe that’s what the priest and the Levite did. Maybe they had given their offering there at the synagogue and they figured that when they got back they would send a representative of their benevolence ministry back to help the injured man.

Sometimes, maybe that is all we can do, but there is no substitute for the human touch that accompanies our contact and involvement in the lives of others.

Care(Luke 10:34) “…and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, took him to an inn and took care of him.

The Samaritan quickly assessed the situation and then he immediately began to care for the needs of the injured man. He saw that the man was badly injured, so he tended to his wounds and then he transported the man to an inn where he could receive further care.

If I’m going to care for the needs of others, then the first thing I have to do is to determine the real needs of the other person. Sometimes, like in this case, the needs are obvious. That’s usually true when it comes to the physical needs of others. If someone is hurt or hungry, or needs clothing, we can usually determine those needs pretty easily. But sometimes, when the needs are more emotional or spiritual, they are not quite as easy to see. That’s where we have to go back to that very first step and work ant being conscious and aware of the needs of others. That’s another reason the whole idea of contact and involvement is so important. The more time we spend with other people, the greater the likelihood that we’ll be able to discover their deepest needs.

Then, once we determine what the needs are, we have to use whatever resources we have at our disposal to meet those needs. All the good intentions in the world are no substitute for taking an active role in meeting the needs of others.

When God brings us into the lives of others and gives us the resources to meet needs in their lives and we fail to care for those people, we not only rob the other person of the help God intended for us to provide, but we also rob ourselves of the blessings that come from serving others. No wonder James says that is a sin.

When I’m conscious of the needs of others, when I have compassion, when I’m willing to make contact and care for their needs, I will always incur a…

Cost (Luke 10:35) “The next day he took out two silver coins and gave them to the innkeeper. ’Look after him,’ he said, ’and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.”

When the Samaritan man stopped to help this stranger, he incurred several costs. It cost him his time, something that the priest and the Levite apparently weren’t willing to give. It cost him a great deal of effort. And it cost him some of his resources. He took his wine and oil and used them to treat the wounds. And when he got to the inn, he provided the financial resources to make sure the man would get the continued treatment that he needed. The two silver coins he gave to the innkeeper represented two days wages for a typical worker, so it was not just some token gesture in his part.

Whenever we choose to serve the needs of other people, there is always a cost involved. Sometimes our time, sometimes our emotions, sometimes our financial resources, and often all three.

Jesus describes the three types of people that are present in the world:
• First, there are those like the robbers, who look at others and say “Everything you    have is mine, and I’ll do whatever I need to do to get it.”
• Then there are those like the priest and the Levite that say, “Everything I have is mine, and I’ll do whatever I need to do to keep it.”
• But then there are the Samaritans who say, “Everything I have is yours, and I’m willing to give all I have to meet your needs.”

Which one are you?

 
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Posted by on August 29, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

Proper Priorties

A room which was once filled with laughter, quickly turned silent as I asked the room of teenagers to describe their feelings about beginning another school year.  A few of them shared their eager anticipation of making new friends and embarking on exciting adventures.  However; most of the room shared feelings of anxiety and even dread.  I was curious if it was because of the high demands of their schoolwork that caused them to have these feelings and they were quick to say, “No”.  Many of these teens felt the beginning of school meant the end of the close relationships which they cherished with each other and also with God.

I have seen reactions such as this before in my years of ministry, but to me this time is seemed different.  As I stood there in front of the room my mind began to fade back to when I was a senior in high school and a dear friend of mine saw me begin to walk down a path which needed to be avoided.  I recall Tony Hall speaking in front of a group of young people while holding an empty glass jar.  He explained how the jar represented our life.  Each and every day we all make choices as to what we put into our jar.  Tony then began to fill the jar with white rice and shared how many times in life, “things” begin to take up our time, talents, and resources.  However; if we are not careful we will not have enough room for all the things which really matter most: God, family, friends, recreation, school/work.  He then began to try and fit ping pong balls with the previous words written on each ball.  It didn’t take long to realize that not all of the ping pong balls would fit into the jar filled with rice.  But then, Tony emptied the jar once again and began to challenge us to consider Matthew 6:33, “Seek ye first the kingdom of God…”  He started by putting the ping pong balls in first and then began to fill the jar once again with the rice, only to stop for a second to shake the jar to allow the contents to settle.  By putting the “important” things in first, everything fit nicely into the jar.  On a side note, upon the passing of Tony I was allowed to take a few things from his office.  One of the items I took is the same jar that he used to minister to me all those years ago.

I was recently asked to think about and share some insights into the priorities Jesus displayed within his life.  At first I considered how Jesus spent time “preaching, teaching, and healing every type of disease throughout all of Galilee.” (Matthew 4:23).  Then I considered his words in Luke 19:10, “For I have come to seek and save the lost.”  I also considered how Jesus make it a priority to spend time in prayer with his father (Mark 1:35).  All of these were constantly and consistently manifested throughout the life of our Lord and Savior.  However; I wanted more.  I wanted to have a deeper understanding of some additional things which will challenge me and aid me in my ongoing quest to become more life the Christ.

If there ever was anyone who understood the priorities of Jesus I believe it was the Apostle Paul.  I want to submit for your consideration his writing about Jesus in Philippians 2:1-11.  Please notice some additional priorities noted in this passage.

“So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, 2 complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. 3 Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. 4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. 5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, 6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7 but made himself nothing, taking the form of a servant,  being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. 9 Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, 10 so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.”

Jesus made humility a priority in His life. (Philippians 2:3,8)  Humility is a great oversight in the lives of many people.  We need to pursue humility in the way we act, in our attitude, and by our words.  Psalm 147:6 states, “The Lord lifts up the humble; he casts the wicked to the ground.”  Jesus shared in Matthew 18:4, “Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.”  James went on to say in James 4:10, “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.”  These are only a few passages from God’s Word stating His desire for you and I to be humble in all we do.  But notice the question posed by the Lord through Moses and Aaron as they spoke to Pharaoh in Exodus 10:3, “Thus says the Lord, the God of the Hebrews, ‘How long will you refuse to humble yourself before me?”  That is a question that each and every child of God needs to ask themselves.  Are we truly humble or do we only want to believe that we are humble?

We live in a culture in which humility is counter cultural.  Our world continually pushes pride.  When was the last time you experienced a politician was promoted humility?  How many singer/songwriters are promoting a heart of humility?  What about in the realm of sports?  Oh I know, after the long celebrated touchdown dance, the reporter interviews the athlete and the first this they say is, “I would like to thank my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” However; their behavior a few minutes earlier wasn’t consistent with their words when the microphone was in front of them.

Paul reminds the church of Philippi that Jesus has a heart of humility and we must do everything we can constantly take our focus off of ourselves and place it where it belongs.

Jesus’s concern for others was a priority in His life. (Philippians 2: 5-6)  It has been said that our attitudes determine our actions and our outlooks determine our outcomes.  Do we have the same outlook of Jesus?  Jesus is God but did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped.  When Jesus went to the cross, He was not thinking of Himself but of others.  There are numerous “one another” passages in the New Testament.  Serve one another (John 13:14) Bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2) Be at peace with one another (Mark 9:50)  Love one another (John 15:17) Live in harmony with one another (Romans 12:16)  Welcome one another (Romans 15:7)  Forgive one another (Ephesians 4:32)  Build up one another (1 Thessalonians 5:11).  We must become more focused on others like Jesus.

Jesus’s service to all was a priority in His life.  (Philippians 2:7)  As you read through the gospels you’ll quickly notice that it is Jesus who serves others.  He serves fisherman, harlots, tax collectors, the sick and the sorrowing.  In John 13, it was Jesus who kneeled down to wash the feet of the apostles.  You see, God’s kingdom is a serving kingdom.  Servant leadership is a must.  Jesus models this in life and death.

Jesus’s sacrifice was a priority in His life.  (Philippians 2:8)  Many people are willing to serve others as long as it doesn’t cost them anything.  Jesus’ death was not the death of a martyr, but the death of a Savior.  Jesus willingly laid down His life for the sins of the world.  I once heard a man say, “Ministry that costs nothing accomplishes nothing.”  The conclusion we must all reach is not just how much we are willing to take in terms of suffering, but how much we are willing to give in terms of sacrifice.  Is it costing you anything to be a Christian?

Jesus’s ability to glorify God was a priority in His life. (Philippians 2:9-11)  No discussion about this priority should be needed.  Jesus made clear that the Lord is the first priority within His life.  In Matthew 22:36-30 Jesus states, “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” 37 And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. 38 This is the great and first commandment. 39 And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. 40 On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.”  Jesus is commanding that we each love God with all our being.

In recent years a head coach divorced his wife of 26 years when he left coaching a college team to become head coach in the National Football League. He said he needed a wife while coaching on the college level for social functions and to show families that he would be looking out for their sons. In pro football, however, she was unnecessary and a distraction to winning. He said winning football was his number one priority and his two sons second. How tragic!

In contrast to this, Tom Landry, former coach of the Dallas cowboys said, “The thrill of knowing Jesus is the greatest thing that ever happened to me … I think God has put me in a very special place, and He expects me to use it to His glory in everything I do … whether coaching football or talking to the press, I’m always a Christian … Christ is first, family second and football third.”

Much like that room of teenagers, we who are adults need to take the time to refocus and reshape our priorities within our life.  Consider how much more blessed our families and friends would be if we each took Jesus’ example personally.  May God continue to be patient with us as we strive to become more like His son on a daily basis.

 
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Posted by on August 23, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

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A Family of Destiny – Life lessons from Moses

From the beginning of Genesis to the end of Revelation, the Bible is filled with accounts of families.  There are stories about moms and dads, brothers and sisters, grandparents and grandchildren.  There are some incredible stories which can influence our families today.  A few weeks ago I was asked to take part in the first annual “Family Growth Seminar” hosted by the Cherokee Hills church in OKC.  I felt it would be good to publish some of the outlines on this blog in hopes to reach and therefore impact many more families.  I hope this post is a blessing to you!

In Exodus 2:1-10 we read where God rose up a family of destiny.  God had a plan for that baby.  His plan was for Moses to deliver his people out of Egyptian captivity.  This decision impacted not only Moses’ family but also the family of millions of Israelites.

A family of destiny is a family which understands God’s plan/will for their lives and therefore does everything they can to fulfill it.  I do not know about you, but it is my prayer to raise a family of destiny within my home and to aid other families in that quest.  How can this be accomplished?  Note four observations from this family of destiny. 

Families of Destiny Protects (Exodus 2:2-4)

For those of you who are parents; do you remember the intention actions you performed in order to protect your newborn?  I know that my wife and I were very careful to make sure that we and everyone else who came into contact with our son washed their hands thoroughly.  Many a father has struggled to make sure their child’s car seat was properly installed; cinched down really tight, and drove home yelling at all the crazy drivers who were speeding by them as they drove 20 miles per hour under the speed limit.  We want to do everything within our power to protect our children from danger.  In these few verses we read where Jochebed (Moses’ mother) understood the edict implemented by a fearful Pharaoh but allowed her faith to be larger than her fear.  She was willing to risk her own life in order to protect her child.  Notice how she hid Moses for three months, carefully constructed a basket from the bulrushes, and had big sister (Miriam) to follow carefully from the distance.

In the same way God wants us to protect our families from worldliness, sin, evil, predators, and such.  But just as important as providing physical protection, God wants us to provide spiritual protection from evil by putting on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18), protecting our hearts (Proverbs 4:23) being on guard against false doctrine (1 Timothy 1:3) and by living holy lives (1 Peter 1:16) just to name a few.  Why?  Because Satan is looking to destroy our families.  I firmly believe the key to parents protecting their families from destruction is by their willingness to get involved in their children’s lives; both social and spiritual. 

Families of Destiny Provide (Exodus 2:7)

Pharaoh’s daughter asked Miriam to get a Hebrew woman to raise this child thereby granting Jochebed the ability to raise Moses as if he were in her very own home.  Moses’ family was able to provide for him physically, spiritually, emotionally (Exodus 4:10-17) and even much needed guidance (Exodus 18:13-24). 

Families of Destiny Prepare (Exodus 2:8)

Luke records in Acts 7:25 – “He (Moses) supposed that his brothers would understand that God was giving them salvation by his hand, but they did not understand.”  Also note Hebrews 11:24-25 – “By faith Moses, when he was grown up, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter, choosing rather to be mistreated with the people of God than to enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin”.  Scripture doesn’t come right out and say Jocebed taught Moses the Word of God but the inference does exist.  How else would he have known about Jehovah God?

God wants us to prepare our families (Deuteronomy 6:3-7; Proverbs 22:6; Ephesians 6:4) How well are you preparing your children/family?  Are you actively teaching/instructing them in the ways of the Lord?

According to the National Study of Youth and Religion, 2005, just over 50 percent of Christian teens report that their families talk about God, the scriptures, prayer, or other spiritual issues together once a week or more.  If that statistic holds true in our congregations, that means about half of our families with teenagers go through a typical week without discussing spiritual matters.  Parents, let’s take advantage of opportunities to share spiritual truths with our children.  Even more, let’s create opportunities to share spiritual insight with our kids.  We don’t have to have all the answers.  In fact, there is great benefit in just discussing important questions with our kids.  Be open and honest.  Make prayer a priority in your home.  Open up the Bible and simply read together as a family.  Apply biblical principles to life’s circumstances.  Most of all, model a sincere walk with Christ.  May God and His will be the centerpiece of our homes!

Families of Destiny Praise (Exodus 2:2; Acts 7:20; Hebrews 11:23)

At first glance it you may miss a key word found in these verses.  The NIV states “
a fine child”.  The ESV reads “and he was beautiful in God’s sight” and the ASV declares “and was exceedingly fair.”  Within these passages there is a common phrase to describe Moses; Moses was a good looking kid and his parents and others are praising his appearance.

In Scripture we find another father emphasizes the praising of His Son.  We find God praising Jesus when He was baptized (Matthew 3:17, Mark 1:11) and on the Mount of Transfiguration (Matthew 17:5, 2 Peter 1:17).  God repeated states, “This is my Son in whom I love and am well pleased.”  If God feels the need to praise His son, how much more do we need to praise our children?

Jack Canfield of Chicken Soup for the Soul once cited a study that followed a group of two year olds around for a day.  The results found that the average child received 432 negative statements and only 32 positive statements each day.  Praise needs to be given to encourage children.  Encouragement is the process of focusing on your children’s assets and strengths in order to build their self-confidence and feelings of worth.  I like to think of the word encourage broken into “en” courage meaning I am giving you the gift of courage.  Through praise awe let our children know that we appreciate their efforts not just their accomplishments and that our love and acceptance is not dependent on their behavior.  Praising children encourages them to keep trying.  It helps develop confidence and imparts a feeling of being loved, appreciated, and cared for.

If God put so much emphasis upon praising His Son, then why aren’t we praising our families?

Just as God had a plan and a purpose for baby Moses, he also has a plan for you and your family.  It is my opinion that God is looking for families who are willing to be different than the world.  Families who are willing to fully submit to the Way in order to be utilized to achieve His will.  God is looking for a family to take a stand and follow Him.  Will you decide today to take that stand?  Are you willing to commit to putting Christ first in your life?  Are you willing to begin today teaching and impressing His Word on the hearts and minds of your children?  God has a plan for us.  May we make our lives right with Him.

 
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Posted by on August 2, 2011 in Uncategorized

 
 
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